James Tom, seen on Netflix, HBO Max and Comedy Central, is building a new hour about starting life over in your thirties, a very specific shift in dating identity, and coming out to a family that doesn't do feelings. Youngmi Mayer, the writer and comic behind the memoir I'm Laughing Because I'm Crying, joins as special guest. If you like personal, queer, unvarnished comedy on a lazy Sunday, go.
What to expect
An early-evening new-material show in Union Hall's downstairs room, so expect some rough edges and a relaxed, conversational pace. Mayer appears as a guest alongside Tom's set.
Good to know
- The R at Union St is the nearest station.
- 21+ only.
- New material means experimental jokes, not a finished special.
- Tickets are non-refundable.
- An early show leaves time for dinner in Park Slope after.
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Common questions
Who is the special guest?
Comedian and writer Youngmi Mayer.
What's the show about?
New material on starting over in your 30s, sexuality and coming out to an emotionally repressed family.







